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A woman in Nashville is recounting how she might have scared away a man from dating her.
@zoertoast, in a video she uploaded to her TikTok, talked about a guy she was chatting with on Hinge and then decided to go out on a date with. The only catch? The date never happened. The day before it was supposed to happen, and the hours leading up to it, the man simply ghosted her. However, it seems that the most embarrassing part of the whole experience for @zoertoast was that she triple-texted the man, asking for accountability on the situation after everything that happened.
TikTok user @zoertoast triple-texted a man after he ghosted her
@zoertoast, in the first few seconds of her video, where she talks about the guy who ghosted her, says she started talking to him on Hinge. She also mentions that he asked her out for the upcoming Saturday, noting that he would be busy all week. Slightly deviating from the main story, @zoertoast states that she’s not a big fan of going on dates and is on dating apps because she likes attention. However, with this guy, she says she thought she could step outside her comfort zone, and so she agreed to the date.
@zoertoast says that during the week leading up to Saturday, she and the guy texted each other throughout the day, but not constantly. She then explains that on Friday, while she was in a pool enjoying a half-day, she sent him a picture of the pool, but he didn’t reply for over twelve hours. Despite not getting a response to her previous message, she allegedly sent him another text asking if he had plans for that day, but received no reply again.
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The next day, which was the day of the date, she says she didn’t receive a text from the guy all day. Then, at 11:30 pm, before the day was over, she allegedly triple-texted him. Reflecting on her moment of weakness, @zoertoast recalled her friends telling her not to do it. But she said, “I’m sorry, what do I have to f—ing lose in this situation? I’ve never met him. The date’s not happening.” She also mentioned that she asked him what time he was picking her up that night, but he didn’t respond.
People in the comments appreciated @zoertoast for what she did
@zoertoast’s TikTok video, where she talks about triple texting a Hinge date after he ghosted her before a date, has gained a lot of attention. As of now, the video has about 7 million views and over 800K likes. Over 2000 people have also commented on it.
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User @tiffanylynn1281 said, “no absolutely never pass up an opportunity to be funny.” User @juliaeisenberggg commented, “this is objectively funny.” Many people shared their own experiences of doing something similar to what @zoertoast did in this situation. For example, @bbyp8 said, “I sent a man a “sorry for your loss” card when he ghosted me.” User @jocelynronaldo19 added, “Happened to me once n I said ‘aw & you were my favorite one too’.”
What people think about modern dating
An article from the Institute for Family Studies on February 10, 2026, describes today’s young people as living in a “depressed dating economy.” The source also notes that this conclusion is based on an analysis of the 2025 National Dating Landscape Survey, which surveyed 5,275 unmarried young adults aged 22–35 across the United States.
Key findings include:
- 74% women and 64% men reported not dating or going on only a few dates in the past year.
- Among the younger generation, confidence in dating is declining, and only about one in three young adults has high trust in their dating abilities.
- Young adults require clear roadmaps that guide them through dating experiences, helping them align their marital expectations with real unions.
(featured image: TikTok/@zoertoast)
