If you ever had your own place, you know making it feel like "home" takes time and effort. And for those who love to host, making your guests feel welcome is everything.
I recently stumbled across a Reddit thread where people shared "green flags" when visiting someone else's home. Here are the little details that actually make a huge difference:
1."The home looks lived in rather than performative. Clean enough to be comfortable, but not so pristine that you're afraid to sit down."
2."Good lighting. Some people live like cave trolls. 😅"
3."Happy pets and plants."
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4."Hand soap at every sink."
5."A clean toilet."
6."Biggest green flags to me personally are when people don't allow shoes inside and have full bookshelves. Usually good signs that they're clean and interesting conversationalists, which are two things I value."
7."They buy the good toilet paper."
8."When the hand towel in the bathroom doesn't smell sour. I really don't want my hands to feel nastier after I wash my hands."
9."Music playing or a music collection displayed. It's welcoming, and usually a good icebreaker conversation starter."
10."Pets in the home, and on the furniture, but no pet smells. These are my kinda people."
11."Offer me a drink and bring out small snacks on a table even though nobody expects them to do it."
12."A couch you can actually sit on. Not a display couch with 400 tiny pillows."
13."A nice setup for their pets: cat trees, dog beds, clean water bowls, etc."
14."It smells clean from actual cleaning. There's no overpowering odor from the air freshener or whatever it's trying to cover."
15."Chargers available without having to ask. That's hospitality at an elite level. 😭"
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16."Beer fridge in the garage and/or deep freezer. Never been to a house with either of these where I didn't feel welcome."
17."No ****** slogans on the walls."
18."A plunger in the bathroom. Someone thought ahead and isn't afraid of looking practical."
19."They have cats, but I cannot smell litter."
20."Their decor reveals something about their taste and character, and isn't just generic 'art' that could belong in any staged home."
21."A made bed."
22."When their house smells good, or at least neutral smelling! Too many times, I will hang out with someone and their house smells like weed or cigarette smoke, making my clothes smell like that!"
23."If they have kids, I love to see a display of their art. Also, family photos that aren't just one staged photoshoot."
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24."The #1 answer is a bidet, nothing like a clean bum."
25."Seeing photos of friends, family, and pets around the home."
26."Clean floors. I don't mean they need to be mopped, but swing a vacuum over them. By the doors when you come in, I understand, but the middle of the house shouldn't have mud or other debris. CRUMBS. Unless you are actively cooking or just ate, it skeeves me out so hard. If I have a single crumb, we end up with ants, so I think that's where my fear of crumbs is from."
27."Their AC is working very well. I can't tell you how many homes I've been to lately where it's 80 degrees inside."
28."The host seems comfortable there. A home that reflects the person's personality rather than trying to impress everyone can be very welcoming."
Share a major green flag when you're visiting someone else's home in the comments, or submit anonymously using the form below. Your response might be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post!
Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.
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