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People are sharing their automatic green flags when visiting someone's home

People Are Sharing Their Automatic Green Flags When Visiting Someone's Home
People Are Sharing Their Automatic Green Flags When Visiting Someone's Home

"They buy the good toilet paper."

If you ever had your own place, you know making it feel like "home" takes time and effort. And for those who love to host, making your guests feel welcome is everything.

Home sweet home mat on a wooden porch
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I recently stumbled across a Reddit thread where people shared "green flags" when visiting someone else's home. Here are the little details that actually make a huge difference:

1."The home looks lived in rather than performative. Clean enough to be comfortable, but not so pristine that you're afraid to sit down."

A stylish living space with lots of natural light
— u/tom_bradley-vp Hugo Goudswaard / Getty Images

2."Good lighting. Some people live like cave trolls. 😅"

u/Past-Wonder4987

3."Happy pets and plants."

Someone petting a fluffy Maltese
— u/Dangerous-Tackle-315 Olga Yastremska / Getty Images

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4."Hand soap at every sink."

u/AggressiveSherbetty

5."A clean toilet."

A clean bathroom with modern tiling
— u/Legal_Campaign_408 Ekaterina Demidova / Getty Images

6."Biggest green flags to me personally are when people don't allow shoes inside and have full bookshelves. Usually good signs that they're clean and interesting conversationalists, which are two things I value."

u/soulfucked

7."They buy the good toilet paper."

A basket filled with rolls of toilet paper
— u/Starrboys Mark Duffy / Getty Images

8."When the hand towel in the bathroom doesn't smell sour. I really don't want my hands to feel nastier after I wash my hands."

u/savannaraesterling

9."Music playing or a music collection displayed. It's welcoming, and usually a good icebreaker conversation starter."

A person playing a vinyl record
— u/gen4lude Kinga Krzeminska / Getty Images

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10."Pets in the home, and on the furniture, but no pet smells. These are my kinda people."

u/kimtenisqueen

11."Offer me a drink and bring out small snacks on a table even though nobody expects them to do it."

A charctuerie board surround by wine glasses and lit candles
— u/FO-Jakob Solstock / Getty Images

12."A couch you can actually sit on. Not a display couch with 400 tiny pillows."

u/phb71

13."A nice setup for their pets: cat trees, dog beds, clean water bowls, etc."

A dog eating from a bowl
— u/buildingacozymystery Carol Yepes / Getty Images

14."It smells clean from actual cleaning. There's no overpowering odor from the air freshener or whatever it's trying to cover."

u/mycatpartyhouse

15."Chargers available without having to ask. That's hospitality at an elite level. 😭"

A smartphone charging
— u/Embarrassed_Goal_832 Alrphoto / Getty Images

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16."Beer fridge in the garage and/or deep freezer. Never been to a house with either of these where I didn't feel welcome."

u/D-Will11

17."No ****** slogans on the walls."

A marquee sign with "LIVE LOVE LAUGH"
— u/Batteredsoss Solidcolours / Getty Images

18."A plunger in the bathroom. Someone thought ahead and isn't afraid of looking practical."

u/Fir3Lion

19."They have cats, but I cannot smell litter."

A cat streching out
— u/Xo-Mo Viktoriya Skorikova / Getty Images

20."Their decor reveals something about their taste and character, and isn't just generic 'art' that could belong in any staged home."

u/r0ckl0bsta

21."A made bed."

A person making the bed
— u/DKam082090 Maria Korneeva / Getty Images

22."When their house smells good, or at least neutral smelling! Too many times, I will hang out with someone and their house smells like weed or cigarette smoke, making my clothes smell like that!"

u/Ok-Can-5497

23."If they have kids, I love to see a display of their art. Also, family photos that aren't just one staged photoshoot."

A child drawing with crayons
— u/jkomi90 Praewblackwhile / Getty Images

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24."The #1 answer is a bidet, nothing like a clean bum."

u/Shooknite

25."Seeing photos of friends, family, and pets around the home."

A collage of various baby and family photos in assorted frames on a wall
— u/Aggravating_Style676 Ondrooo / Getty Images

26."Clean floors. I don't mean they need to be mopped, but swing a vacuum over them. By the doors when you come in, I understand, but the middle of the house shouldn't have mud or other debris. CRUMBS. Unless you are actively cooking or just ate, it skeeves me out so hard. If I have a single crumb, we end up with ants, so I think that's where my fear of crumbs is from."

u/saaandi

27."Their AC is working very well. I can't tell you how many homes I've been to lately where it's 80 degrees inside."

A person in casual clothes adjusts an air conditioner with a remote in a room with a door and window blinds
— u/This_Event_2433 Ekaterina Goncharova / Getty Images

28."The host seems comfortable there. A home that reflects the person's personality rather than trying to impress everyone can be very welcoming."

u/Vistakawaii

Share a major green flag when you're visiting someone else's home in the comments, or submit anonymously using the form below. Your response might be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post!

Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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