Eric Clapton channeled his unimaginable grief following the tragic death of his young son into the creation of his most heartbreaking and highest-selling single, Tears in Heaven.
Born March 30th, 1945, iconic rock guitarist Eric Clapton came to prominence as a member of the Yardbirds in 1963, before leaving the band to join John Mayall & the Bluesbreakers in 1965 for a brief sojourn. From there he formed Cream, a power trio consisting of himself, drummer Ginger Baker, and bassist/vocalist Jack Bruce. The band enjoyed great success, as would follow-up bands Blind Faith and Derek and the Dominos, releasing only one album under each moniker, the latter of which produced the classic track "Layla."
Then Clapton ventured out on his own, beginning with his first solo album, the self-titled Eric Clapton in 1970, released after his uncredited, brilliant guitar solo on the Beatles' George Harrison-led track "While My Guitar Gently Weeps" from the White Album. His career as a solo artist mirrored the success of his band days, with Clapton releasing a string of hits like "After Midnight," "Lay Down Sally," and his cover of Bob Marley's "I Shot the Sheriff," which became Clapton's only song to reach the top of Billboard's Hot 100. His best-selling effort, however, remains 1991's "Tears in Heaven," a song that arose out of unimaginable heartbreak: the death of Clapton's four-and-a-half-year-old son, Conor, that same year.
The Personal Tragedy Behind Eric Clapton's "Tears in Heaven"
The date was March 20, 1991, and Conor was in the 53rd-story apartment condominium of his mother, actress and Italian television personality Lory Del Santo, in New York for a visit from Italy. Clapton, too, happened to be in the city at a nearby hotel at the time (the pair weren't married: Clapton had an affair with Del Santo during his marriage to Pattie Boyd, with Conor the result). That morning, Del Santo was entertaining a friend while the housekeeper cleaned the apartment. The window had just been cleaned and, while Conor wasn't in the room, was left open to air the room. Tragically, Conor darted past the housekeeper, who was unable to prevent Conor from reaching the six-by-four window before it was shut, with the boy falling 49 stories to land on top of an adjacent four-story building.
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The investigation revealed that Conor's death was just as it appeared: a tragic accident, preventable only in hindsight, with the building exempt from a regulation requiring window guards be installed in all residential buildings. Despite the findings, fabricated stories circulated that placed the blame on Clapton himself, one of which suggested that Clapton was there when it happened, with Conor running to greet his father, as was their routine, only for Conor to slip past Clapton and through the open window. These falsified accounts only added to the immense grief that would keep Clapton from performing for nine months.
Eric Clapton Channels Tragedy Into "Tears in Heaven"
Conor's birth in 1986 pushed Clapton towards sobriety, and while the loss certainly could have challenged that, it instead made him more resolved to stay that way, choosing to deal with his grief through music. One of the projects he took on was working on the soundtrack for 1991's Rush, for which he called in songwriter Will Jennings to assist. As Jennings tells it, Clapton wanted to write about his grief, and had come up with the title and the first part of the song:
"Would you know my name, if I saw you in Heaven? Would it be the same, if I saw you in Heaven? I must be strong, and carry on. 'Cause I know I don't belong here in Heaven."
"Tears in Heaven" would go on to sell more than 2,800,000 copies, peaking at number two on the Billboard Hot 100 singles chart. More importantly, the catharsis of writing and recording the song served as a healing agent, with Clapton saying, "I have got a great deal of happiness and a great deal of healing from music." It wouldn't be the only song inspired by Conor, either. "Circus Left Town" is about the night before Conor's death, the last time Clapton saw him alive as they went to the circus together, while "My Father's Eyes," though largely inspired by the loss of the father he never knew, refers to Conor, with Clapton writing in his 2010 autobiography: "In [the song] I tried to describe the parallel between looking in the eyes of my son, and the eyes of the father that I never met, through the chain of our blood."
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