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Simon Mills is a middle-aged, divorced man with an important question. When dating again, is it best that he doesn’t talk about the D-word? Stay off the subject of his ex-wife, the ongoing custody battle, the financial ruin he faces, his new and reduced-circumstances existence?

Divorce coach Fidel Beauhill’s face has been open, friendly and mostly dominated by a big, inclusive smile during their hour-and-a-half-long therapy session. Now it turns to thunder.

Calmly but gravely, he explains: ‘So, complaining that nobody loves us, how unfair everything is, that we are not respected any more... this is what we call the “victim state” and it is very bad energy...'

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